Boy 9265 was born on
September 20, 2000, and came into care in 2008.
He understands adoption, and looks forward to having a family that can
care for him. He has average
intellectual function, and is currently enrolled in grade 4. His favorite subjects are English and
science, and he says he will study hard to become a pilot and he wants to help
poor people someday. He is in a
Christian orphanage in which spiritual formation is part of the daily routine,
and he attends Sunday School and services every Sunday. He is an active child who likes to play
outdoor games like basketball, baseball and soccer. He came from a difficult background of losing
his caring relatives at a young age and having to fend for himself, but he is
learning to be patient and to obey now that he is back in the care of loving
caretakers who are helping him to grow academically and spiritually.
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Waiting Child Spotlight! Philippines Boy 9265
Today's Waiting Child Spotlight is on a 12-year-old boy waiting in the Philippines. He looks forward to a family of his own. Nine other boys about his age are matched through Hand In Hand's summer hosting program this year, so we are sure that this little boy must also have a family out there that would love to be his family! Contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org for his picture and full file.
Labels:
Boy,
Older Child,
Philippines
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Waiting Child Spotlight! Urgent call for aging out girl in the Philippines
Today's Waiting Child Spotlight is on a young lady who is already 15 years old. She is waiting in the Philippines, and she will age out when she turns 16. She needs a loving family who is open to adopting a teenager. For her full file and picture, contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org and ask about Girl 9226
Girl 9226 is 15 years
old. She is physically healthy and
active. She has a good appetite and is
not choosy when it comes to food. She
has improved a lot when it comes to her behavior since admission to the home in
2007; she had difficulties interacting with the other children when she came
into care. She is doing well in school,
attends class regularly and does her homework and projects on time. She leads her classmates during school
presentations and other activities. She can
take care of herself and is the most fashionable
girl in the home. She assists the needs
of the younger girls in the girls’ quarter.
She is respectful and also relates well with staff and volunteers. She would like to have a permanent
family. Her psychological testing
indicates that she has no major behavioral problems. Her achievement level has been below average,
and it is recommended that she have tutoring to help her maintain good progress
in school. It would be ideal for her to
be placed as the youngest child of experienced parents.
Labels:
Older Child,
Older Child Adoption,
Philippines
Waiting Child Spotlight! Two little boys in the Philippines
Today's Waiting Child Spotlight is on two charming little boys waiting in the Philippines. Please contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org for their extensive reports and pictures. Neither are camera-shy, but we can't post their pictures online!
Boy 8631 is a cute
preschooler who was born on February 23, 2009.
He has an extensive report detailing his progress from birth. There is
family history of mental illness/delay. His report shows that he has delays that raise
the possibility of him being on the autism spectrum, but he continues to show
consistent improvement in all areas of development. As of his last report at almost 4 years of
age, his gross motor skills include the following: He can climb on chairs, walk
backwards, run without tripping, jump, turn and dance in patterns. He also scribbles spontaneously, holding
crayons in a palmar grasp; puts objects in and out of containers, unwraps food,
uses pincer grasp on food items and all his fingers for toys. He can feed himself and gets dressed with
assistance. He is not yet toilet trained,
but that is being worked on during the day, with diaper use at night. He follows simple directions, and uses 2-3
word combinations, and 5-20 recognizable words.
He can wait his turn, but does not share well yet. However, if another child is in distress he
will comfort the child. He loves to be
cuddled, hugged and carried, and is noted to be improving with therapies and
activities. He is recommended to be
placed in a family that will be able to give him access to occupational therapy
and speech therapy, and basic preschool experiences, to overcome his delays.
Boy 9064 is a
cheerful and very cute toddler who just turned two years old in May 2013. He has a hemangioma birthmark on his far left
forehead. He was noted to have mild delayed
physical development and mild low muscle tone of his trunk and mild high muscle
tone of the limbs. He was diagnosed with
mild spastic cerebral palsy. He had an
abnormal EEG indicating some mild seizure activity, and his left eye appears to
drift inward slightly. As of the report
dated January 2013 when he was 20 months old, he can reach, grasp and hold
objects, well with his right hand, but not well with his left hand. He can maintain a sitting or standing
positions for several minutes, and can stand up straight when holding on with
one hand. He is noted to “demand
personal attention” and loves playing with the houseparent. He is noted to salivate particularly when he
smiles and laughs. He is in regular
therapy. He is requested to be placed
with a childless couple who have the time to devote to giving him the time,
support and opportunity for therapy to continue his progress to address the
mild global developmental delay and mild cerebral palsy.
Labels:
Boy,
Philippines,
Toddler
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Waiting Children in China - May 2013
Today's Waiting Child Spotlight is on children waiting in China. Please contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org for more information about any of these children. See RainbowKids.com, Love Without Boundaries and the Mayo Clinic website for information about the medical conditions of these children.
The male child was born on June 7 2010... The doctor in this institute examined him carefully, and
the diagnosis is high muscular tension of limbs, and others development is
normal. He is 41cm in head size, 44cm in chest size, 62cm in height and 6.5kg
in weight. We estimated his DOB is June.7 2010 according to his growth
development, and he was about two months old at birth. We gave him a name that
means we hope he would be a handsome and clever boy.
Boy 510 B - born Oct 26, 2009 – Down Syndrome
4. Bath: once or twice per day
Report date Aug 29, 2012
S ex: female DOB: Aug.10 2009
At 20:00 on Aug 30 2010, the
common people report to 110 that there is a 4 years old boy left in a store.
The Police Station Public Security Bureau received the report and reached the
site immediately and did lots of reaches, and put the notices, but failed to
find the birth parents and relatives, and confirmed his as the abandoned child.
On the following day, the child was sent to this institute. On admission,
according to the physical development, his birth date is estimated as Aug 31
2006. On admission, he has 118cm in
height, 20 kg in weight, 50.50cm in head size, 55.5 cm in chest size, and 20
teeth. After admission, we did the tests on liver function, blood routine, 4
items of blood within one week. After that, he was arranged in Care Group 3.
The one day old girl was
picked up at the gate of Bureau of civil Affairs on Feb.8 2010. On the same day
she was sent to this institute to be raised upon agreement of the civil affairs
bureau. PE given to her by medical staff in this institute on admission found 43cm
in height, 3.5kg in weight, 33cm in head size, 36cm in chest size, cunnus deformity, preliminary
diagnosis: newborn with defection. According to her physical growth and
umbilical part, medical staff in this institute decided her DOB as Feb.7 2010 .
Presently the child’s body and intellectual development is normal.
At the age of 1-2 months she can twinkle and watch slight light; at 3-4
months, she can turn over body, when amusing her, she would watch you, pay to
sound; at 5-9 months, she can play her two hands before chest, when feel hungry
or before sleep, she would like suck finger, can find sound direction, turn over body flexibly, can support upper
body by hands and raise head; at 10-13 months, she can sit alone, often sit on
the bed with listening music; at 14 months, she can stand against bed rails,
walk around the bed, play with the near children and hand in hand with near
children, rob near children quilt, sometimes she will make happy sound out when
feel excite. When caretaker brings milk, she knows it is the time to drink,
then she would cry until caretaker make the milk into her mouth. She can hold
milk bottle on her own bed.
The child’s birthdate was estimated
as Jan 8, 2011. He was picked up in the residential
building opposite the County Transportation office. The local police station
failed to find his parent and sent to Social Welfare Institute to be raised to
this day. Diagnosis on admission: Spinal meningocele, hydrocephalus
Boy 510 A – born 7/7/10 – high
muscular tension of limbs
Our
institute adopts collective upbringing and special care methods, mainly feeding
milk powder, and having vaccination on times, in order to make sure that he
grows up healthily. On admission, he had good spirit, no crying and had good
sleep, with milk volume for 40ml/time. When we touch his face with hand, he
would turn his head to the aunt. At the age of 6months, he is 45.5cm in head
size, 46cm in chest size, 68.5cm in height and 7.5kg in weight, has 2 teeth. He
is able to sit on the baby chair alone and plays, and likes to put the toy into
his mouth to bite. When the aunt teases him, he would giggle happily, with
shaking his hands and feet. We add supplementary food for him on time, and he
can adapt soon, having half an egg, fish, Tofu and fruits puree. He has good
appetite, and can have a baby bowl of food per meal. At the age of 1year, he
can crawl with hands and knees, and can stand up with hands holding onto
support; when he sees his familiar aunt, he would stretch hands out to ask her
holding. His hands are very flexible, can express with hands welcome, goodbye
and dance and so on. But on Sep.12 2011, he cried, sudden vomiting, present
comatose state, and we sent him to the hospital for treatment immediately. By
brain CT examination: subdural hemorrhage on right temproparietal part,
subarachnoid hemorrhage, hernia formation. After hospitalization, and he was
diagnosed as brain dysplasia on right side. After 17 days in the hospital, he
was discharge, and we found him lower muscular tension of left upper and lower
limbs, limited movement and poor reaction. We carried out excellent care for
him, configured special nutritious meals for him, and planed scientific
Rehabilitation program. By the massage for two hours daily and electrotherapy
etc., he recovered soon. He can stand with right arm holding onto supports. At
the age of 1.5year, he is 48.2cm in head size, 50.5cm in chest size, 80cm in
height and 12kg in weight. Movements of his right hand and foot are freely; he
can take the toy with right hand and shakes it; muscular tension of left upper
and lower limbs has been improved, but his fine motor is poor and his
coordinate ability is also poor. He is still performing the rehabilitation and
is very cooperative when training. He likes to crawl and fast.
Now
he is 2years and 1month old, has a pair of black and large eyes, fair
complexion, round face like apple and is very handsome; he is outgoing, likes
sports, can sit alone, stand alone and walk alone, but his coordinate ability
of left lower limb is poor, and he is not steady when he walks alone; he likes
to walk with hand held by the aunt. He is a clever child, can understand simple
instructions; when the aunt say “down to sleep please”, he can do quickly,
while looking the aunt with smiles; he is very obedient; when the aunt says
other child’s name, he would point to the right child with his fingers; when
the aunt praised him, he would respond to the aunt with smiles, a little shy.
He has good appetite, not choosy to food, likes to eat noodles with vegetable
and pork, can eat one or two baby bowls of noodles; he can say mom.
Presently,
he is 48.5cm in head size, 51cm in chest size, 84cm in height and 13.5kg in
weight, has 16 teeth.
Report
date July.4 2012
The baby boy was found on Oct
26 2010... After admission he had no
paper along him and was decided born on Oct 26 2009 according to his growth
development. He was fostered in a family from Jun 25 2012 till now. He suffered Down’s syndrome and received the
chromosome test in affiliated Hospital: 47, xy, +21. He had no major diseases
except catching a cold occasionally and he was not allergic to the medicine and
food. He has been vaccinated with HBV, OPV, DPT and MV. He is active, lovely and fond of smile. On Nov 5
2010 he entered the infant parenting program cooperated by our institute and
USA Half-Sky Fund. He was taken care by the nurturer in the day time and he
would not like to contact the outside world. He would look down his head when
being called. At the age of 1 year 2months, he could prop his upper half body
with both hands and move forward. At the age of 1 year 5 months, he could crawl
with his knees and hands, liked playing before the mirror, could make sounds of
“a, da”, could understand the simple language and direction, could imitate the
simple action. At the age of 1year 8months, he could walk freely, not afraid of
strangers, liked touching fresh things, could make greetings with “a,a”; could
have his good friends and could play toys with his good friends. At the age of
2 years, he liked dancing, knew the position of his 5 organs, could imitate
sit-up, liked playing see-saw and sliding. At the age of 2 years 3months, he
was attractive, liked imitating, could follow simple action. At the age of 2
years 6months, he could recognize the mates in the same activity room; could do
what he could do, could understand the adult’s language, could speak “dad,
mum”; his language development was delayed, but he had his own expressing
means. He is the happy nut in the institute and foster family. He is not afraid
of strangers, likes smiling and is liked by everyone. Life habits: 1. Diet: good appetite, milk of 250 ml and 2
baozi at 8:00; a bowl of rice at 12:00, like egg, meat and vegetables; a bowl
of rice at 19:00; like all kinds of fruits and snacks, such as biscuits and
apples.
2.
Sleep: 21:00-7:00 13:00-15:00
3.
Excretion: normal, remind to go to the toilet 4. Bath: once or twice per day
Report date Aug 29, 2012
Girl 301 M – born 8/10/09 - cleft lip and palate,
congenital heart disease
State of health: cleft lip
and palate, CHD
Category: abandoned baby
Intake date: Aug.10 2009
She was abandoned on the lawn
north of South Entrance of a park, was picked up and sent to this institute by
someone. PE on admission: poor growth, nutrition was not good, thin, ptosis of
upper lid of both eyes, smaller rima oculi, flat and thin bridge of nose, left
cleft lip and palate III, soft neck without power of resistance, strong heart
sound, coarse murmur above III like blowing wind can be heard at apex of heart
in period of contraction, no palpable swelling of liver and spleen, no
deformity of spinal column and limbs with easy motion, no deformity of anus and
genital organs.
Now she is 63cm
in height, 6kg in weight, 39cm in head size,43cm in chest size. She is very cute and clever, the
caretakers all like her very much. She never cries noisily, lies on bed or in
the cradle to play alone when being full, lifts her hands, looks at them and plays them when being
bored, turning them to and fro, utters some sound alone at times which others
do not understand. Now we are training her function on all aspects.
Sealed by: Children’s Welfare
Institute Nov.24 2010
Boy 320 J - born Aug 31 2006 - mild mental retardation
and epilepsy
At 20:00 on Aug 30 2010, the
common people report to 110 that there is a 4 years old boy left in a store.
The Police Station Public Security Bureau received the report and reached the
site immediately and did lots of reaches, and put the notices, but failed to
find the birth parents and relatives, and confirmed his as the abandoned child.
On the following day, the child was sent to this institute. On admission,
according to the physical development, his birth date is estimated as Aug 31
2006. On admission, he has 118cm in
height, 20 kg in weight, 50.50cm in head size, 55.5 cm in chest size, and 20
teeth. After admission, we did the tests on liver function, blood routine, 4
items of blood within one week. After that, he was arranged in Care Group 3.
The child is already 4 years
old on admission. He always stares at the people with the eyes. He does not go
out to play. And he does not like to talk. Being familiar after a period of
time, the child gradually involve in the team. He is more active and optimistic.
He likes to run and jump likes to play games. He can thread the little car with
a string to pull. He likes to observe the outside world, and asks restlessly
the aunts “what’s this? What’s that?” after being dressed in beautiful clothes,
he can point at the clothes with little fingers and says to the aunts “aunt,
beautiful”. Even though he is a little boy, he likes to flirt. He likes to be
held by the aunts and bury the head in the breast of the aunt. When seeing the
favorite objects, he will ask for it restlessly. He works hard and is full of
ability. He can put on and off the clothes. He can help the classmates to put tidily.
Whatever you tell him to do, as long as it belongs to his ability, he will be
pleased to do. Every time when the aunts speak highly of him, he will smile happily,
very cutely. He has 119cm in height,
22.5 kg in weight, 52cm in head size, 57cm in chest size, and 24 teeth at
present. We already give him OPV for 3 times, DPT for 3 times, HBV for 3 times,
MV for 1 time, DPT for 4 times, EMV for 3 times, HBV for 3 times, MV for 1
time. He has taken anti- epilepsy medicines. Now he recur the disease for 1-2
times per month.
At present, the child has
been living care district no. 3, and there are more than 20 children who have the
age from 5-14 years old. He gets up at 7:30 in the morning every day, wash on
his own, has breakfast at 8:00 as congee and desserts, goes to special class at
9:00 to study children songs, writing, math, hand crafts, makes preparations
for meals at 11:00, such as washing hands, preparing the chicken tools, has lunch
at 11:30 , stable food as rice, supplementary with diet menu made by the
nutritionists in the institute every day, such as fish, pork, chicken, eggs and
vegetables, takes the nap from 11-13:30, then has fruits after getting up, goes
to special classes at 14:00,and does reactive activity and sports, supper at
17:30 as rice, fried meals and soup, watch TV from 18:00-19:30, makes
preparations for sleeping from 19:30 to 20, such as washing feet, drink milk,
goes to bed at 20:00. He sleeps well. There are 2-3 times bath per week during
the spring, autumn, and summer, bath every day during the summer. He is a
naughty (AKA full of personality) little boy.
Social Welfare Institute
May 4 2012
Boy 328 M - born Dec 12 2009 –
mild hydrocephalus, no operation needed
He is a little stubborn but
active and lovely. He likes to play balls and balloon. When seeing the favorite
or new toy, he can pull the hands of the aunts, and cry out the things pointed
at. He has the strong feelings with the caretakers. When seeing the caretaker,
he has shining eyes. He plays well with the small children. He is growing up healthily under the
wonderful care of the aunts in the institute.
On admission, the child had the
check and diagnosis by the medical staff in the institute. He was diagnosed
with hydrocephaly, low intelligence. But he eats well and has the regular diet.
He was taken into the hospital in June, 2012 mainly due to the poor
language and walking development, the review of brain CT shows that
hydrocephaly has no obvious changes compared with the previous situation, and
suggestion of no operation.
Report written Dec 20 2012
Girl 220G – born 2/7/10 – ambiguous genitalia
(karyotype:mos 46, XY[45]/45, X[15]) – on our list until 5/20/13
The one day old girl was
picked up at the gate of Bureau of civil Affairs on Feb.8 2010. On the same day
she was sent to this institute to be raised upon agreement of the civil affairs
bureau. PE given to her by medical staff in this institute on admission found 43cm
in height, 3.5kg in weight, 33cm in head size,
Presently the child’s body and intellectual development is normal.
At the age of 1-2 months she can twinkle and watch slight light; at 3-4
months, she can turn over body, when amusing her, she would watch you, pay to
sound; at 5-9 months, she can play her two hands before chest, when feel hungry
or before sleep, she would like suck finger, can find sound direction, turn over body flexibly, can support upper
body by hands and raise head; at 10-13 months, she can sit alone, often sit on
the bed with listening music; at 14 months, she can stand against bed rails,
walk around the bed, play with the near children and hand in hand with near
children, rob near children quilt, sometimes she will make happy sound out when
feel excite. When caretaker brings milk, she knows it is the time to drink,
then she would cry until caretaker make the milk into her mouth. She can hold
milk bottle on her own bed.
The child is quiet and cute.
At the age of 2-4 months she would cry when feel hungry and respond to
caretaker; at 5-10 months, she become interest in her own sound, always speak
“yiyi, yaya” long tong on the bed; at 25 months, she is fond of caretaker
amusing her. When you approach her bed and call her name, she would watch you
and focus on you. She would smile to familiar people, but afraid of stranger
and would cry; at 16 months, she can stand beside bed with listening music,
watching caretaker’s expression. When listen her likable music, she would move
body to dance, sometimes play toy quietly on her bed, when caretaker call her
name she will smile happily, and then use hand to hide half face seem shy,
whole body lying on the bed and watch you secretly, very cute.
On admission, she was
diagnosed cunnus deformity, others are normal, never had operation since
admission. Through checking Chromosome, Karyotype analysis results is mos 46,
XY [45]/45, X[15], explanation is chimaera of two karyotype. Since admission she
has not had severe diseases, suffered cold occasionally, has had fever, running
nose and cough etc. at various degrees which were cured soon after the
treatment by medical staff in this institute. She has no history of drug
allergy.
The child has been vaccinated
according to the children’s planned immunization program in her province. Now
she has been vaccinated with BCG, OPV, DPT, MV, JEV, HBV with detail record.
Report Date: Nov.16 2011
Boy 220H – born January 8, 2011 - congenital hydrocephalus
and brain ventricle after drainage; spinal meningocele; emboli loosening
after surgery – on our list until 5/20/13
The child’s birthdate was estimated
as Jan 8, 2011. He was picked up in the residential
building opposite the County Transportation office. The local police station
failed to find his parent and sent to Social Welfare Institute to be raised to
this day. Diagnosis on admission: Spinal meningocele, hydrocephalus
When admission weight: 3.45kg,
height: 48cm, head size: 33cm,
chest size: 37cm
On June 22 2011 the child
received V-P shunt and tethered spinal cord neurolysis in the neurosurgery
department of Shanghai Children’s Medical Center affiliated to Shanghai
Jiaotong University Medical School. On Jul 5 2011 he received ventriculo
peritoneal shunt tube exploration and ventriculo peritoneal shunt because of pleural
effusion. The operation was successful and he was healed well.
He is over 11 months old. He
is clever, lovely, handsome, cute and adorable boy. All the caretakers like
him. He likes being kissed by the caretaker, likes someone talking and playing
with him, and likes waving his arm or clapping his hands when feeling happy and
giggling. Every time when playing, we always hear his wonderful voice and sweet
smile. Now he can pass the toy from one hand to other one; can bang the toy
blocks together; can sit against objects; can drink milk with holding the milk
bottle; can use the tube when drinking the yogurt; can call “mum”. And he likes
watching TV.
The child has a routine life,
deep sleep, good appetite and does not pick at the food. He is easy to satisfy.
At present height: 67cm, weight:8.5kg,
chest size: 48.5cm head size:45.5cm, teeth: 4.
Report Date: Dec 23, 2011
Waiting Child Spotlight! Philippines Girl 9025
Today's Waiting Child Spotlight is on a little girl waiting in the Philippines. She was born on June 17, 2005, so she will be eight years old soon, and she has been in care since 2011. She is a very cute little girl, with a sweet smile.
This little girl is noted to be loving and affectionate. She has a strong and stubborn personality, but has a keen sense of humor. She is adaptable, and responds to discipline, and is a happy and healthy child. She is not picky about food, and does appropriate self-care, and likes playing outside and in, and enjoys riding a bicycle. She did have a shorter attention span, but her attention span has increased significantly with the care in the center. She loves to attend church and spontaneously sings Christian songs, listens to Bible stories, and joins in and requests prayers. She is loving and sympathetic to other children, especially ones who are hurt and crying, and is very gentle with babies. She did not know how to play gently when she came into care, sometimes hitting or biting, but that behavior has consistently decreased now that she has caregivers working with her to show her correct play and age-appropriate discipline. She is noted to be becoming more stable, and secure, and she tries very hard to please everyone. Her caregivers are pleased with the great progress she has made. This little girl had a number of changed caregivers prior to coming into care, and her social worker wants to see her continue in the excellent progress she has shown so far, so she is recommended to be placed as an only child or in a family where the siblings are not close in age to her so that her parents can give her the attention that she needs to learn to be part of a family.
For her full file and picture, contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org, and ask about Girl 9025.
This little girl is noted to be loving and affectionate. She has a strong and stubborn personality, but has a keen sense of humor. She is adaptable, and responds to discipline, and is a happy and healthy child. She is not picky about food, and does appropriate self-care, and likes playing outside and in, and enjoys riding a bicycle. She did have a shorter attention span, but her attention span has increased significantly with the care in the center. She loves to attend church and spontaneously sings Christian songs, listens to Bible stories, and joins in and requests prayers. She is loving and sympathetic to other children, especially ones who are hurt and crying, and is very gentle with babies. She did not know how to play gently when she came into care, sometimes hitting or biting, but that behavior has consistently decreased now that she has caregivers working with her to show her correct play and age-appropriate discipline. She is noted to be becoming more stable, and secure, and she tries very hard to please everyone. Her caregivers are pleased with the great progress she has made. This little girl had a number of changed caregivers prior to coming into care, and her social worker wants to see her continue in the excellent progress she has shown so far, so she is recommended to be placed as an only child or in a family where the siblings are not close in age to her so that her parents can give her the attention that she needs to learn to be part of a family.
For her full file and picture, contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org, and ask about Girl 9025.
Labels:
Girl,
Older Child,
Philippines
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Waiting Child Spotlight! Philippines Siblings 8880
Today's Waiting Child Spotlight is on a sibling group of four. These children's files are on hold with Hand In Hand through May 9th, so a family is needed to step forward quickly. The two middle children struggled to adjust to living with other children in the orphanage and school initially, but the loving care they have received since admission to the orphanage has been very helpful for them, based on the section of their file describing their current functioning at the orphanage. Contact Vickie at Indiana@hihiadopt.org for more information, full reports and pictures.
B- 8881 (12-0170) September 3, 2001/ Male
C- 8882 (12-0171) February 23, 2003/ Male
D- 8883 (12-0172) October 13, 2004/ male
Ref. No. DOB/ Sex
A-
8880 (12-0169) September 12, 1995/ Female B- 8881 (12-0170) September 3, 2001/ Male
C- 8882 (12-0171) February 23, 2003/ Male
D- 8883 (12-0172) October 13, 2004/ male
The children were referred by their
maternal grandparents to City Social Development Office (CSDO)… due to their
incapability to take care of the children. Their biological parents left them
since 2004 and never came back. The father’s whereabouts is unknown while the
mother is already living with her new family. The CSDO social worker along with
the grandparents referred the children to an institution for proper case
management.
Child A: She is now 16
years and 11 months old. She is currently enrolled as 1st year high school. She
had difficulty in reading, writing and comprehension but was able to cope up it
through tutorials. Prior to her stay in the institution she stopped schooling
when she was eight years old due to financial constraint and helped augment the
family’s income. Child is enthusiastic to learn and eventually took Philippine
National Placement Test. She was able to accelerated 2 years from elementary
level. Child is responsible in school, household chores and in taking care of
her siblings. She is friendly, cheerful, and expressive of her thoughts and
feelings. She regularly attends school and church where she gains many friends.
She likes to participate in different extra- curricular activities.
B: He is now 11 years and 11 months
old. He is currently enrolled as Grade 3 pupil. He has difficulty in learning
academic skills but through tutorials he was able to cope up. He showed
interest in schooling and participates in classroom activities. He likes to
play basketball and has been part of the class team.
He is described as playful, responsible
and respectful. He actively participates in doing household chores and attends
to his assignments without complains. He also participates in spiritual
activities. He dreamed of becoming a fireman or seafarer someday.
C: He is now 9 years and 6 months
old. He is currently enrolled as Grade 3 pupil together with his older brother.
It was his first time to attend school since he came to the institution. He
also has difficulty in learning academic skills but through tutorials he was
able to catch up. He is a fast learner but has difficulty in concentration. He
is very responsible when it comes to school assignments.
He is described as diligent, respectful
and sociable. He has good relationship with some of his classmates but his
teacher states he struggle to admit his mistakes to his classmates whom he
offended. He dreamed of becoming a fireman someday.
D: He is now 8 years and 10 months
old. He is currently enrolled as Grade 2 pupil. He is sociable and friendly. He
attends school regularly. Among all his siblings he started school at the right
age. He has food relationship with the children and staff at the institution.
He can understand instructions and can memorize bible verses.
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Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Adoptee Speaks Spotlight! Letter to a Host Brother in the Philippines
Hand In Hand received permission to publish this remarkable letter from a family who hosted a boy in 2008 and then adopted him. The family is hosting another boy this summer, and their son from the Philippines wrote this letter to the child they will host. We have used initials to protect the identity of the boys and family, but otherwise this is just as the big brother wrote it.
When I was your age I prayed to God to give me one more chance to be adopted due to I was about to age out and then I would not have the opportunity. I kept praying and praying to Him and then a month later I received good news that I was going to be adopted, but later on I received bad news that they had been in a car accident and their daughter was in serious condition. She had to go to the Emergency Room. But! I did not stop praying to God, I prayed to God to help this family to get healed and especially their daughter.
Mom says I went through a honeymoon stage and you will too. She said it will be fine. So when you come if you need to talk or have questions it is better to talk. I kept mine in and then tested her quite often. She stood her ground with me every time, I knew I would not win the battle. I have found it is much easier to talk about what is going on and what you are thinking. To have a mom or dad to tell your thoughts to, to tell them what scares you or what you are worried about is a good feeling. Mom says she didn’t have that until she was older, this is why she is glad to listen and help you through. Grandma K is her mom and she is a pistol but she loves to cook but she wants us to work for her all the time. I worked 9 hours once and she paid me 3 dollars. My mom was upset but I told mom it was ok, because she will fix really good food and offer us to come over and eat it and she can’t afford much either.
D is a great brother, he has a kind heart and he is loving. He is who you will be sharing a room with. Good luck with that. Heee Heee He is messy, maybe you can help him with this problem, I couldn’t. Mom has him trying to keep things picked up and clean now due to she wants him to be prepared and not make you look at his mess. Mom and I are the ones who like things clean and neat. He is doing a little better. He is bright eyed and bushy tailed every morning. (This means he is a morning person, I am not) He just loves life and enjoys every day. I don’t know anyone as happy as him, everyday! He is so happy I wish I could be that way but I am not, I am a night owl mom says. She always smile at D every morning when he was a baby so she says that must be why he is a morning boy. He will talk and sing and laugh all day long if he could. He laughs a lot! Oh and if you are swimming you have to watch him because he will laugh all his air out and drown himself, seriously. He just can’t help but laugh. I think you will love him a lot, you two will be good friends and brothers.
I know at first it is overwhelming but eventually we will all get to know each other, it will just take time. We are truly a down to earth family with big hearts and lots of love to give. I will pray for you and for all of us. Mom says we don’t belong to her or dad, we belong to God and He has chosen Dad and Mom to help prepare us for our eternity with Him in Heaven. She thanks God for the gift of all of us, and feels so blessed that God loves her and dad enough to entrust them with 3 souls, His children.
Bye the way before we knew your name we were calling you CO due to these were the only letters we knew so thus for how we came up with K--- (it sound the same) as a first name. My brother and I like K---, my best friend’s name is C--- with a C. We kinda thought K--- with a K was cool! I like C--- too, mom is just trying to think of a middle name. Mine is L--- and D’s is L--- so we were thinking L--- for yours. Mom said this is our Grandpas middle name. C.L.S. or mom said CO aka K--- stuck with her since this was how she addressed you from the start. K.C.S. Also your initials would be K.C. S. and she said this was neat due to King, Christ our Savior please watch over C.
We are all excited and can’t wait to play and visit. Although, I will have school but I will get a week off in July for your July Birthday. I also have to work, I will have to water the flowers, trees and bushes at our church and mow. I also help our neighbors by cleaning their house and mowing their yard so they can stay a little longer in their house. Our neighbors are nice people but much older like maybe in their 80’s and I work for a massage therapist sewing for him and doing reports for him and financial books and things..
Ok, this is pretty long so I will see you soon. We will have fun, mom and dad make sure to play with us. Usually on Sunday evenings we play kickball, basketball, 4 square, sometimes we will go to the creek and just walk and look around. Mom says the simple things in life are what will make us most happy and show us inner peace. We don’t watch much TV we are usually outside when it is nice.
P.S. I love you brother!
Always In Christ,
F. L. S.
Dear C,
When I was your age I prayed to God to give me one more chance to be adopted due to I was about to age out and then I would not have the opportunity. I kept praying and praying to Him and then a month later I received good news that I was going to be adopted, but later on I received bad news that they had been in a car accident and their daughter was in serious condition. She had to go to the Emergency Room. But! I did not stop praying to God, I prayed to God to help this family to get healed and especially their daughter.
Then in weeks to come I received good news that they found another family for me, but this time I can feel in my heart that this family is going to be my true family. The family God wants me be with. When I received this news I then prayed and thanked God for giving me another chance to have a family.
I started receiving pictures and letters from mom. I thought God has given me a truly beautiful family. I actually have a dad, mom and brother. I was so happy and grateful. Although I was excited little did I know that being in a family is a lot of hard work but very rewarding. I wouldn’t trade my family for anything. They are the best family in the world.
To be in a family you have to put others first. We each have certain chores to do and these get done by all of us working together. Our mom has a bad ankle and back and we all need to work together to help her out and our grandma. She is the best mom in the world she will always do what is best for you. She is the hardest working mom, she works hard for everybody. She will teach you about life, God and also help teach you in your studies. She will protect you and always stand up for you as long as you ALWAYS tell her the truth. She loves with her whole heart and soul. I never thought I could have a parent that loved me so much. She will always put the needs of you, D, Dad and me before herself. You can talk to her about anything and she will help guide you to make good decisions and choices. You cannot get away with much, she is pretty smart, it is much better to be honest with her, do your best and what you are suppose to do, or what you are told. She will tell you it is not about being the best it is you doing your best. She will say to you God only wants this so I cannot ask for anymore. Just give Him your best! She will ask, is that your best?
Mom says I went through a honeymoon stage and you will too. She said it will be fine. So when you come if you need to talk or have questions it is better to talk. I kept mine in and then tested her quite often. She stood her ground with me every time, I knew I would not win the battle. I have found it is much easier to talk about what is going on and what you are thinking. To have a mom or dad to tell your thoughts to, to tell them what scares you or what you are worried about is a good feeling. Mom says she didn’t have that until she was older, this is why she is glad to listen and help you through. Grandma K is her mom and she is a pistol but she loves to cook but she wants us to work for her all the time. I worked 9 hours once and she paid me 3 dollars. My mom was upset but I told mom it was ok, because she will fix really good food and offer us to come over and eat it and she can’t afford much either.
Our dad is amazing, he works so that we can have a house, food, clothing and basically everything. He has to work a lot so mom is around us the most. Dad is a great artist, he will doodle just for fun. He is also good at fixing things and building things. He drives a truck at work, similar to a dump truck it is called a Slinger. Dad is the best Slinger driver, the customer’s request him to do jobs. He has a remote and the gravel from the bed goes on a conveyor belt and dad aims and it slings off in precisely where the customer wants it. Dad and I like to draw. Dad is more laid back and easy going. He doesn’t get excited to much. He is funny too! His mom is Grandma S and Grandpa S is who she married after our Dad’s dad died. Grandpa S keeps Grandma S really busy. She is nice and spoils us when we come around she always wants to give you things like candy or sweets and our mom doesn’t like that to much but she says it is ok due to this is what grandmas are suppose to do. Spoil you then send you home. We have a lot of people that care for us, we will all three be the luckiest brothers in the world. D said, “It is the 3 amigos!” or something like that.
D is a great brother, he has a kind heart and he is loving. He is who you will be sharing a room with. Good luck with that. Heee Heee He is messy, maybe you can help him with this problem, I couldn’t. Mom has him trying to keep things picked up and clean now due to she wants him to be prepared and not make you look at his mess. Mom and I are the ones who like things clean and neat. He is doing a little better. He is bright eyed and bushy tailed every morning. (This means he is a morning person, I am not) He just loves life and enjoys every day. I don’t know anyone as happy as him, everyday! He is so happy I wish I could be that way but I am not, I am a night owl mom says. She always smile at D every morning when he was a baby so she says that must be why he is a morning boy. He will talk and sing and laugh all day long if he could. He laughs a lot! Oh and if you are swimming you have to watch him because he will laugh all his air out and drown himself, seriously. He just can’t help but laugh. I think you will love him a lot, you two will be good friends and brothers.
I know at first it is overwhelming but eventually we will all get to know each other, it will just take time. We are truly a down to earth family with big hearts and lots of love to give. I will pray for you and for all of us. Mom says we don’t belong to her or dad, we belong to God and He has chosen Dad and Mom to help prepare us for our eternity with Him in Heaven. She thanks God for the gift of all of us, and feels so blessed that God loves her and dad enough to entrust them with 3 souls, His children.
Bye the way before we knew your name we were calling you CO due to these were the only letters we knew so thus for how we came up with K--- (it sound the same) as a first name. My brother and I like K---, my best friend’s name is C--- with a C. We kinda thought K--- with a K was cool! I like C--- too, mom is just trying to think of a middle name. Mine is L--- and D’s is L--- so we were thinking L--- for yours. Mom said this is our Grandpas middle name. C.L.S. or mom said CO aka K--- stuck with her since this was how she addressed you from the start. K.C.S. Also your initials would be K.C. S. and she said this was neat due to King, Christ our Savior please watch over C.
We are all excited and can’t wait to play and visit. Although, I will have school but I will get a week off in July for your July Birthday. I also have to work, I will have to water the flowers, trees and bushes at our church and mow. I also help our neighbors by cleaning their house and mowing their yard so they can stay a little longer in their house. Our neighbors are nice people but much older like maybe in their 80’s and I work for a massage therapist sewing for him and doing reports for him and financial books and things..
Ok, this is pretty long so I will see you soon. We will have fun, mom and dad make sure to play with us. Usually on Sunday evenings we play kickball, basketball, 4 square, sometimes we will go to the creek and just walk and look around. Mom says the simple things in life are what will make us most happy and show us inner peace. We don’t watch much TV we are usually outside when it is nice.
P.S. I love you brother!
Always In Christ,
F. L. S.
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